I probably will regret posting this response ... I know it will sound insulting, but I really don't want it to ... to be honest, I was thinking exactly the same thing when he posted the "dude looks like a lady" comment .. again, no offense intended, but that particular photo you had in your avatar was a bit 'androgynous', you could have 'passed' for a male in drag in that pic ... not to be defending the guy, he didnt need to bring attention to it, but you should know, and maybe be less thin-skinned ... hell, just be happy you don't look like me ...