A BIT P****D OFF

[mand]

jesus mand, you call the guy a "nob cheese" after his flippant remark and that's where it should have ended. but no, you have come whining in here about getting dissed while you obviously out-dissed him in the 1st round...and now the guy has even apologised! when are you going to give it a rest??? accept the gracious apology and move on...i'm about ready to break out the hankie box now...sheesh!

Oh dear Del, refering to someone as "Mrs Doubtfire" is not an apology, a vain attempt at sarcasm to save face ............. maybe.

I could go on about how the comment was not made in the lounge, it was actually made in the seed section of the forum, were I was attempting to help Orangeman with his question............................. but I won't.

In truth Philly Kid is of no importance to me whatsoever, infact I should really be wishing him the very best of luck ............. he's going to need it.



You know Del, you mentioned the word "dissed" which I take as a referal too mean dis- respect.
This is how "respect" works............... When talking to someone never talk "at them" but talk "too them". No matter what there age, gender, race, nationallty, speak to them with respect.
Why ? ............................. Simple, when talking to someone in a respectfull manner it will promote the recipent to return the the favour. When recieving the respectfull nature in someones words it then creates the feeling of "self respect".
It's a circle you see Del, the respect creates a feeling of well being and friendship amongst all involved.

I feel quite silly for telling you that because I'm sure you already understand



love mand xxx

[mand]

Just a little for you Del ............ you see I have no work today and nothing better to do.

Before you critise my feelings and emtions any further, such as .............................."i'm about ready to break out the hankie box now...sheesh!". Let me tell you I know people, I have learned the hard way, but I had too, to make a living you see.
I've been having a look at you're past threads, and I've seen enough to know even I could write words that would hurt you. Just remember that at the end of every computer screen there is a person, and most of those people have feelings.

Anyway putting that aside, from you're avatar I notice we have something in common, I to am a fan of the work of Van Gogh. I have a print of the very same piece on my bedroom wall


love mand xxx

[mand]

You know I've just realised something ..... What on earth am I doing wasting my time arguing on here with some really ignorant and insensitive people.


Well it's my first aniversary on this site today, so I am going to have to say in our "Mr Harrdons" words ....... "Thanks Guys it's been a Blast"....... but I'm out of here


Bye ....................................... love mand xxx

[Zandor]

Well unfortunately mand I feel you are not alone. The whole feel of this site is changed and not for the betterment of all either.

This is becoming a kiddy site now I am afraid to say. I feel that many will soon join you even a few mods, they are feeling the same thing as you. I know it was not that one post but a compilation of many things and even the feeling of this place has changed. We come here to share our love for growing this plant. Some has forgot that and itâ??s a shame. Many new members are only here to play games and move on. They have a short attention span as many children do but if this keeps up the damage will be done and not repairable.

Lets try to remember why we are here in the first place.

[latewood]

yeah!!! What he said! I am very disappointed with this whole damn thread...I cannot believe for any reason, whatsoever that anyone would find fault with mand; I do think mand got a little carried away, (who knows why?, doesn't matter) but for all the love she has spread throughout these grow forums...She sure didn't gain much support this week...this place will definiely be at a loss without her endearing smile and her goofy, laughable ways...And, the lady could grow! More than I can say for most of you.

I said my piece...

lw

[del...]

fyi for everyone...mand has been banned for making threats, not that it matters much, but it's the principle of the thing...it's nothing personal on my end but threats have never been tolerated here.

[bob bobbinson]

Why did this all get so blown up? heres my thing... overgrow is dead. there members are strewn about. some here some elsewhere. so.. these new people were prob from overgrow. but overgrow rocked right? how did they deal with kids? cause we know they had them.

they ignored them. That all people gotta do. is ignore it. read the thread.. then... DONT post a COMEBACK to save face. thats how things get escalated.

Im not taking sides. its not my place. And once again... find me a site with 100 percent adults who never say ANYTHING impropper and ill find u some leprican's gold.

[The Grim Reefer]

Why did this all get so blown up? heres my thing... overgrow is dead. there members are strewn about. some here some elsewhere. so.. these new people were prob from overgrow. but overgrow rocked right? how did they deal with kids? cause we know they had them.

they ignored them. That all people gotta do. is ignore it. read the thread.. then... DONT post a COMEBACK to save face. thats how things get escalated.

Im not taking sides. its not my place. And once again... find me a site with 100 percent adults who never say ANYTHING impropper and ill find u some leprican's gold.

Actually, OG got rid of kids as soon as they surfaced. Sometimes people would slip with "I was in my 7th grade english class.." after being there for years and would get banned.

They had a 0 tolerance for kids from what I heard.

[The Grim Reefer]

Sorry - hit the fiver limit.

I don't think the mods here would ban her for no reason. Our mods are pretty fair and extremely legit in my opinion, and I see some fast bans/deletions once in awhile.

I'd rather have them use too much force than too little anyway.

Mand took things too personally.
Things were taken out of context.
She's banned.
Let's grow and be happy.

[del...]

it's only for a week and hopefully it'll get her into other sites so she can see for herself what happened here happens all but daily practically everywhere there are kids, young adults, oldsters and stoners (in any combination) in a room together. i'm positive if any one of the mods here felt she was being personally insulted or attcked we would have removed it asap...but after going thru it all again i still don't see it...sorry but i don't. it's such a non-issue that i can't believe we've spent 3 pages (and counting) going on about it!