Srry for coming of as an ass-hole, but just check out my thread, Ive just added another post about what girls want. The rest of you should check it out too, its good and it works. O BTW alcohol definatly helps with the "fuck it" attitude cuz it lowers you inhibitions, makes you fell like the greatest thing since sliced bread, and makes you mentaly numb to any hurtfull rejection. And this might be just me but I never use weed to make me more socialable because I over think and iver analyse EVERYTHING that a person, does, says, or dosnt do, or say.