Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I think I probably have fairly lenient ideas in this area, but to me, that's just a guy being a guy. I'd definitely prefer it if the guy didn't hide this part of his life or lie about it, but perhaps he does that because he can anticipate what the reaction on the female partner's part will be.
That is certainly one reason. Ever read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"? It'll explain a lot about us men and you women and is a highly recommended read.
We men are not talkative, especially not about such subjects, usually. Women like to express their feelings, we do not(again mostly).

If we know that a woman understands and accepts that we are/think/feel different in many respects and does not treat our way as being wrong, we might get more talkative as well. There is no 'wrong', just 'different'(except if you judge it on morale which is implied by society)

Just my opinion on that matter.

Cheers,
Carisma
Carisma Reviewed by Carisma on . mental cheating??? what do you all think about porno in a commited relationship? I personally think it's "mental cheating" and while some might see that as too harsh, i believe the act of someone peeling one off to the image of another woman or man just isnt very cool...watching it together as a type of foreplay is fine, but to hide and lie about a stash is deceptive and wrong...guys and girls whats your opinion? how would your partners feel? is my opinion one of an oversensitive woman, or is it rational??? Rating: 5