I really appreciate everyone's input.

I didn't mind the clubs that much until I was the DD for my boyfriend, his friends, and my older brother one night. They all got drunk while I was stone cold sober and they decided they wanted to go to the titty bar. The thought of going and sitting between my boyfriend and my brother simply disgusted me. Now, I can't imagine going at all, ever.

I understand why some men, even those in relationships, want to go.
I understand why some women don't want their men to go.

The thing I don't understand is why I can't think of a compromise that would make both me and my boyfrind happy. Is there one?