Iā??ve been in an out of a few strip clubs. I used to go sometimes when I was in the military with the guys from my unit. It was alright and free for me but it was a little irritating when my guys got drunk and kept trying to buy me lap dances. Once when we went my boyfriend came with us. It was OK I think it made him more uneasy than it made me. I didnā??t care if he went to a strip club with his friends he was an honest and faithful man to me.

Yes, itā??s a waste of money.

And if it were a frequent activity than I would just find another man. Itā??s easier to find another man than it is to stop one from doing something like that. Plus, once you start telling each other what the other can or canā??t do then things usually start to fall apart.