You absolutly did the right thing. 19 yrs. ago I was in Korea, in the Air Force, and had been busted for possesion twice when I met my wife. She didn't like "happy smoke". So I quit. She was right. The Air Force would have burned me good if they had caught me. Since then I had three kids, got my degree, and had a reasonably happy life. But I hurt my back in the Air Force and now I'm on diability. And also she passed away last February. But I never regretted quiting pot. We had some hard times and we had our fights, but I never once resented quiting....So now I'm growing my own and I imagine after harvest I'll be stoned a lot again, but I'll never regret quiting for her.