OH MY GOSH! that was making me wanna cry, knowing that there are men out there that do care! and would be so understanding to his girl. I tell ya what your relationship with her has got to be very special, and you must love her very much to understand how she was feeling, hell I use medical cannabis, and when my hubby found out he had a hard on for a month lol. But even so if I didnt use it through my doctor, I would only wish that if I felt like she did and told him he would be like a shit and say F U! , but I can say he never tried to grow till I got medical, But like some said they would tell a girl to hit the road if she asked him to choose, but that is why they are single and alone, lonely oh yeah and hate thier life! But like my husband says MAry Jane is his only true love, she makes him happy and gives him no SHIT!, no nagging, bitching, or head aches! Much love to you and your girlfriend, hope the best for you two~!