Quote Originally Posted by krustythfreakinclown
Turtle,

Glad to hear you are in love.

In my years of observing others and myself in relationships with women, I've come to the following conclusion:

Women will destroy the person you are and mold you into the person they think you should be, regardless of whether it's in your best interest or not.

I've heard guys talk about things like "sacrifice", and "choosing your battles"; it's all a bunch of self-delusional bullshit.

Here's the deal: Women only allow the men victories on things which don't bother the women and have no impact on their "plans" for their men. This sets the stage for men to think that they "get away" with things, or that the men "put their foot down" on something, when the women didn't really care in the first place. This gives men the illusion that they share power with the women in the relationship.

It's all a lie.

Your woman has made you turn your back on a passion of yours because she doesn't like you doing it. That is the true reason why she hen-pecked you into killing your babies. Sure, she used reasons like getting busted by LEO, doesn't like the smell, it raises the electricity bill, etc. But the real reason is that she just plain doesn't like it. Also, it's a way of her getting you to surrender to her on something which she KNOWS you are passionate about. This establishes a precedent for her holding power in the relationship.

Next thing you know, she's going to be redecorating the place, making you eat vegatarian and start dressing a way you wouldn't have ever allowed yourself to before you met her (e.g., khakis and a golf shirt with loafers). Hell, she'll even dictate how your hair should be cut.

Ask any married man about the motorcycle they had to get rid of, or the trips to Vegas they aren't allowed to go on anymore, or the season tickets to baseball they had to give up.

Then, you should ask what the woman had to give up...Oh, yeah, she just has to let the guy fuck her once a week and give a blowjob or let him do anal on anniversaries.

Who has the net gain?

Good luck in love. I hope to be as happy as you someday soon! :thumbsup:
I study people for a living - I study people for fun - and I study women to seduce them with an alarming success rate. You are TOTALLY correct. Which is why the all the old cliche's about nice guys finishing last, girls fall for bad boys etc. Bottom line is females like a challenge. Females want to conquer with love. Why do you think females love the BAD BOY -- because it is a challenge. Period. To change him. What biger challenge?

Want proof? This is a simple lil thing to prove exactly what im saying.... Next time you talk to a woman and things are going good.... DO NOT ASK her for her phone number -- instead challenge her. "Its too bad well never get a chance to connect like this again... i dont have your number"

You just tossed down the gauntlet. And shes female. She wants to prove you wrong. 90% of the time your gonna get that number just from sheer principal alone. She wants to prove you wrong. And on the plus side no rejection -- you never asked

I'm true to myself and myself only. If --SHE-- has a problem with what --I'M-- into, like, engaged in, currently doing... Shes obviously not the one for me. I change for noone but me and me alone because *I* want to. I'm born into this world myself -- and leave this world myself. Theres how many billion of people on this planet? and 2/3 of them are women. Pfft change this. Like doritos -- crunch all you want well make more.