I don't agree that it's unhealthy for one person in a relationship to have their sacrifices recognized by the other. That's not the same thing as 'holding it over her head', but if she doesn't recognize the sacrifice, that isn't right, and reinforces the belief that she can make you do (or not do) whatever she wants. Relationships (that last) are about give and take, compromise. You give up some things to make your partner happier, but the converse should also be true, else the relationship is one-sided and likely doomed to failure, or at least there will be an undue amount of unhappiness endured by the one making the bulk of the sacrifices. Compromise is VERY healthy for relationships, but compromise involves sacrifice by both parties, and recognition of those sacrifices.
jamstigator Reviewed by jamstigator on . Death of Cannabis... Harvest of Love ((NOTE: This was written 2 days ago.)) Hello to all my good friends. I hope you are all doing very good when you read this. What you're about to read, has been very hard for me. I'm sure many of you will not approve... but you don't matter then. And I'm sure many of you will be supportive in my decision... and you are the ones that matter. Rating: 5