I took a different route. My girlfriend gave me a similar ultimatium. Guess who ended up getting kicked.
I've had my share of long term relationships. I know that, no matter how much you are in love, how blind you are to everything else because of a women, your relationship will probably fail. (I'm being a realist, not a pessimist).

They say that more then 50% of all marriages fail. Ever do more research? The odds of you and your woman lasting as BF and GF are almost 75% against you. If you marry her, then your odds get a bit better. They drop to 50/50.
On the day she gave me that ultimatium, I had called around and found a place to move. Luckily I was on a month to month basis with my rent and was out in 24 hours. Didn't tell her where I moved too. I think she regretted the incident as she still to this day calls me.
My grow was bigger then yours. I've been saving up so I can start up my own business. Unfortunately, MJ is an intergral part of my savings and once I go legit, I will hopefully have achieved my american dream. Your grow wasn't as important to you as mine was to me, so I can see how easy that desicion was. I hope your choice was based on a comprimise, and not an ultimatium like mine. Any woman who tells you what you can and can't do, is not worth being with. A relationship will fail without comprimise. Good luck.
Relic2279 Reviewed by Relic2279 on . Death of Cannabis... Harvest of Love ((NOTE: This was written 2 days ago.)) Hello to all my good friends. I hope you are all doing very good when you read this. What you're about to read, has been very hard for me. I'm sure many of you will not approve... but you don't matter then. And I'm sure many of you will be supportive in my decision... and you are the ones that matter. Rating: 5