Death of Cannabis... Harvest of Love

[HapaPride]

wow that made my eyes water... much respect.... at least you know and she knows that she is the one for you

HapaPride Reviewed by HapaPride on 05-28-2006. Death of Cannabis... Harvest of Love ((NOTE: This was written 2 days ago.)) Hello to all my good friends. I hope you are all doing very good when you read this. What you're about to read, has been very hard for me. I'm sure many of you will not approve... but you don't matter then. And I'm sure many of you will be supportive in my decision... and you are the ones that matter. Rating: 5

[krustythfreakinclown]

Turtle,

Glad to hear you are in love.

In my years of observing others and myself in relationships with women, I've come to the following conclusion:

Women will destroy the person you are and mold you into the person they think you should be, regardless of whether it's in your best interest or not.

I've heard guys talk about things like "sacrifice", and "choosing your battles"; it's all a bunch of self-delusional bullshit.

Here's the deal: Women only allow the men victories on things which don't bother the women and have no impact on their "plans" for their men. This sets the stage for men to think that they "get away" with things, or that the men "put their foot down" on something, when the women didn't really care in the first place. This gives men the illusion that they share power with the women in the relationship.

It's all a lie.

Your woman has made you turn your back on a passion of yours because she doesn't like you doing it. That is the true reason why she hen-pecked you into killing your babies. Sure, she used reasons like getting busted by LEO, doesn't like the smell, it raises the electricity bill, etc. But the real reason is that she just plain doesn't like it. Also, it's a way of her getting you to surrender to her on something which she KNOWS you are passionate about. This establishes a precedent for her holding power in the relationship.

Next thing you know, she's going to be redecorating the place, making you eat vegatarian and start dressing a way you wouldn't have ever allowed yourself to before you met her (e.g., khakis and a golf shirt with loafers). Hell, she'll even dictate how your hair should be cut.

Ask any married man about the motorcycle they had to get rid of, or the trips to Vegas they aren't allowed to go on anymore, or the season tickets to baseball they had to give up.

Then, you should ask what the woman had to give up...Oh, yeah, she just has to let the guy fuck her once a week and give a blowjob or let him do anal on anniversaries.

Who has the net gain?

Good luck in love. I hope to be as happy as you someday soon! :thumbsup:

[Jdog7000]

Man, that is so true.
I'm sure there are some women that are not like that. But from my experience you are dead on!

[turtle420]

cactusMan,

Thanks for the post man. I hope to see that movie soon.
And yes, it was most definitely an awesome ride!

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smokesalot,

Thanks for the words dude.
You are very right when you say that not all battles are worth fighting. That is wisdom right there.
I also, definitely, hope I have found happiness.

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Graph,

Don't worry man.... doesn't sound gay.
As for your future mother... haha! That'd be fun... maybe.... it would suck to have it turn out a male... HA!
Strain? Man, I'd be very much happy if you picked it. Make it... some of the weed strain the the pope smokes before talking to the masses. LOL !!!

Thanks

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Grim Reefer,

Hey man!
Names?
How about
GrowBitch! and I'llNEVERkillYOU
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Those sound nice.

LOL!!!!
The path: Well, I'm just going forward. It'll definitely make me stronger... whatever the outcome, it'll be the best.

Peace dude, thanks.


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Hey Jdog,

My woman is very hot... so, that part is covered.

As to finishing the harvest: Man, I think there was going to be no relationship to go back to if I waited until harvest was finished.

As to the engagement ring... shit man... another one?!

LOL !!!!!

As to growing again, it will happen... just when she feels more comfortable. It'll happen man... I've got no doubts. And obviously, I'll post it here.

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Garden Knowm,

Thanks dude. Havoc, would have been very fucked up. Very fucked up.

gK, I have no doubt in my mind I'll be growing again. I don't think soon, but definitely within 2 years. Hmmm... "definitely"? Maybe I should edit that....

But man, do not worry... I'll grow, and obviously, post here. Everybody will know.

I just hope I can harvest before SkillzRemix's son graduates from college!
lol lol lol

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Jdog,
LEO = Law Enforcement Officers.

They don't so much "enforce" the law, but simply try and fuck you for not following it.

You don't hate your life...
You love it!!!


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JakenTheGentiles,

Thanks for posting here dude!

Man, I would definitely need to send her out and get her hair and nails done! Ahahaa! Yeah man...

I definitely love this hobby.... darn it!
As to jealousness of the other "girlfriends"... LOL!!!! Haha! Probably man.... probably.

Take much care good buddy, Peace to you,


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CactusMan,

The change of mind is a definite possibility... but it doesn't really matter now.... no turning back. Only waiting again...

I know man... I know.


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HapaPride,

Thanks for those words man... thanks for the respect.

We definitely love each other... so let's see what the future holds!

Much care man, much care to you



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KrustyTHEfreakingCLOWN,

Wow man... nice post.
You seem like a very cool dude to sit down, and talk some deep shit every month or so.

Your inputs on women are very interesting... and definitely worthwhile to read.

I cannot claim my woman doesn't do things like that, because both me and her are growing. We're both in this process... so many things are changing.

But,... in my opinion, love, real love, will entail a respect for such differences, and a continuing struggle to comprehend and accept the other partner.


"""Your woman has made you turn your back on a passion of yours because she doesn't like you doing it. That is the true reason why she hen-pecked you into killing your babies. Sure, she used reasons like getting busted by LEO, doesn't like the smell, it raises the electricity bill, etc. But the real reason is that she just plain doesn't like it. Also, it's a way of her getting you to surrender to her on something which she KNOWS you are passionate about. This establishes a precedent for her holding power in the relationship. """

She did like the hobby... but we moved about 2 months ago to a new crib, and the new place doesn't have the same peacefull "vibe" to it...

"Hen-pecked" <-- man, I've seen this happen to my friends, various times.
But I can tell you honestly, this wasn't the case this time.

In fact, she did not tell me EVER to kill them.

When I showed her the empty grow cab... she just stood there.... dumbfounded... speechless... expressionless.... not sorrow... not happyness... just... blank stare into what was once a kick-ass SCRoG.

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As to making me eat vegetarian food... I'd rather fucking die before I eat vegetables. I eat meat man. Ugggghhh... vegetables.

Regarding the khakis, golf shirt, and loafers... well, ... I see your point. I'll just have to give you a report up-date in about 2 years time... to see how it's going.

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Woman vs Men trade-offs...

You are right about a lot of that stuff.

But you see, I think society "glamours" so much the fucked-up relationships, many people actually DO believe that it's impossible to achieve a long lasting, life-long relationship with another person. A love man/woman relationship.

And this is, entirely plausible.

It's just that MTV, Time and Eminem are very, seriously fucked-up.

Now, regarding fucks, BJs and anals...
Fucking once a week?
Darn it... I thought I was in a down-slump because we fucked about 4-5 times a week... once a week is just, depressing.

If I ever get to that, I'll give you a holla, tell you you were right, and give you for free ALL my equipment.

Regarding blowjobs... hahaha!

Dude, we men can't ever get enough. So, I don't think either you or me are every going to be "objective" regarding that. AHAHAHAA!


Anal... on anniversaries... only?.... I'd better start coming up with anniversaries for shit... like, buying one goldfish every week... PING! Anniv.

LOL!!! Funny dude... funny shit.

CONCLUSIONS::::

Net gain? Who has the net gain?

Darn it dude... hard to tell. Hard to tell.

I've come to believe that it's a balancing act. Both partners need to show respect and desire for that balance, or it'll not work.

Sure, one of them might be super happy, thinking everything is going like in the fairy-tales... but it's just building up pressure... something is going to blow, eventually.

Nothing, let's hope I make it.

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Hey everyone, thanks for everything. I really do like the replies from this here, my friends.

Best wishes to all of you, and let's hope I can grow again ASAP,

Peace guys,

-turtle420
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[krustythfreakinclown]

Glad to hear you're giving it serious thought.

In any event, you sound very happy right now and that is what is important for you.

When is the wedding?

Can I come? Better question: Can we ALL come?

[The Grim Reefer]

Krusty - do you have aim or an e-mail I can reach you at? You sound like a very intelligent well-rounded guy and I'd like to chat with you.

/hijack

Turtle - It sounds to me like you have everything figured out in this point in time and you've thought things through at every angle. I believe that even if she doesn't end up working out for you in the long run, you're the kind of person who will only become stronger.

[cactusman23]

Your still growing turtle, metaphorically of course.:thumbsup:

[elcheapo]

Good move Turtle. It took a strong man to dump the hobby. Will probably take a few weeks before you feel like something isn't missing. Hope to see you hanging around the boards still. You and GK have given me a lot of good laughs and everyone a lot of good information and encouragement.
Best of luck to you and your missus. If the relationship doesn't work out for some reason then at least you know you did what you could.

[turtle420]

Glad to hear you're giving it serious thought.

In any event, you sound very happy right now and that is what is important for you.

When is the wedding?

Can I come? Better question: Can we ALL come?

Haha!

Thanks dude... Thanks.

I believe things like this can be discussed in these boards.

I mean, fuck it. Many people are reading this... many people are learning from this. Including me. So it's all good. All is good.

When is the wedding?
Ummm.... no date yet.
Can you come?
FUCK YES!!!

Can you ALL come?
FUCK definitely YES!!!

I'll let you guys know when it happens... yeah!

Krusty - do you have aim or an e-mail I can reach you at? You sound like a very intelligent well-rounded guy and I'd like to chat with you.

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Turtle - It sounds to me like you have everything figured out in this point in time and you've thought things through at every angle. I believe that even if she doesn't end up working out for you in the long run, you're the kind of person who will only become stronger.

Krusty definitely sounds like a well-rounded guy. A good friend he most definitely is.

Grim, I have various things figured out, but I always think in my life:
Cherish change.

That's the only sure thing in life... change. Cherish it.
Of course, one always tries to shoot for what one wants... to shape things how one desires.

But that isn't bad.

One of my favorite quotes:::

The best way to predict the future is to create it.

That's a good one.

Your still growing turtle, metaphorically of course.:thumbsup:

Damn straight. Damn straight.

Interesting thing: since I've no longer the grow on-going, man... I feel like SuperMan... A cop could pull me over for running a red-light, or for speeding... or whatever... and I just feel like:
HAHAHAHa! Speeding ticket! Whatever dude... write it out to your heart's desire!

And I don't tell him, but what I'm thinking is: I just stopped growing... serious shit. And now he wants to give me a ticket for speeding? Ha! Go for it man...

By this, guys, don't think I'm out there doing crazy shit... but I DEFINITELY feel like a 600 pound Gorilla has gotten OFF my chest. Uffff..... I sleep tight at night.

But for next grow (whenever that is...), I'll take some precautions that'll make everything a little bit safer. Safer to sleep at night.

Good move Turtle. It took a strong man to dump the hobby. Will probably take a few weeks before you feel like something isn't missing. Hope to see you hanging around the boards still. You and GK have given me a lot of good laughs and everyone a lot of good information and encouragement.
Best of luck to you and your missus. If the relationship doesn't work out for some reason then at least you know you did what you could.

Thanks ElCheapo... good words.

I definitely did what I could... definitely.

Anyways, guys... thanks for all the words of encouragement.

I'll keep you all updated.

Peace guys, peace,

-turtle420
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[Chaos]

sucks to hear man...shit happens though...hopefully the next one will even be better