Quote Originally Posted by Devin Sticky Bud
does she have to cum???...and how long should it go for its gunna be her first time...i wanna make it special....how long at least should i last....is it hard or does time fly by quick for her....lol im not a virgin but the only time i fucked was wen i was drunk....help???!?!
If you possibly can, make sure you do a lot of petting and stuff before you even get into the sexual situation--and do that lots of times. Again, do this on several episodes before you even get in the situation where you're going to have intercourse.. Make sure she can come successfully through petting (with your hand) before you set your expectations on her having an orgasm during your first time.

It takes girls/women a good bit longer to get to where sex works for them. And the truth is, most girls don't come the first time they have sex. Lots don't come until they've been at it for a few years. Three-quarters of women don't have orgasms from intercourse at all. So petting/forplay is the key for most of us.

That means keep your expectations of her performance low. Either she'll be aroused when you use the hand technique and there'll be a good chance she came come that way, both before and when the occasion arrives that you'll also have intercourse. Or she won't. It depends on how well she already knows her body and how much she's experimented before you and by herself. Let's hope she's comfortable masturbating and already knows her own sexual response.

You got some good advice up there to make sure you fire one out of the barrel yourself before you go into action with her. It'll keep you from being quite so torqued. Control it with your mind. My husband says thinking about algebraic equations (he's a scientist!) helps slow him down if she starts to feel like he might come too soon. But it may also take you some time and experience, too, to get good at lasting longer. And wear a condom, which'll not only help you be safe but slow you down.

Good luck!