Cheery - I am much like your boyfriend when i smoke. I don't do it very often(weekends - but i take month long breaks frequently). I guess i just don't like the idea of being a sterotypical pot smoker who gets lazy and just sits around when he smokes. Plus i get this feeling of being able to do anything while high, so i just force myself to get the most out of life...i'm productive, become very social, clean, i've even gone for runs in the middle of the night while high. But i also have my nights were i can chill, like if we plan on smoking and watching a really good flick that i've been looking forward to. Give that a shot if he likes movies.