weeds definately not overrated, dont compare it to other drugs its waaay unique, it was completely different than i expected on my first time. Just try not to take too much, i kno alot of people that took too much on their first time and didnt enjoy it at all, including me. You should wait till your third time or so before you take alot, or else you'll just get dizzy and really uncomfortable. So just chill, do just a little at a time and you'll enjoy it, and im assuming you've told the girl its your first cus if you didnt its gonna be hard cus its really easy spotting a newbie.