Howdy Gumby,

The reason that I bring age and whether one has had a child yet,into question,is because until you have a child,there's a whole side of Life,that you haven't experienced. My gal said to me just the other day,that she reckons that because she's never had a child,that she's never had to grow up.

You mentioned something about humility,I think that you are confusing humility with self-loathing and not gittin what ya want. Denying yerself,some of the wants that you have-is not humility. True humility,is best gained through the 'death ' of ego..and by way of being 'humbled'..have you ever been humbled ? I have--many times..and I have learned much about Life,because of it. For instance,I've lived on the street a couple,three times..and I've lost everything that I owned,several times..after awhile,you at least come to understand-that material possesions mean nothing,that un-conditional love and serving others less fortunate or able,is what truly matters.

Have a good one ...