Great thread, likem .... I've been reading since you started it, but I didn't wanna post too soon (pun intended) ... Anyway, at my age, it's not about how fast I finish, it's about IF I finish !!! j/k of course ....

Seriously, we all mess up sex in the beginning .... because we learn it in the streets. A 15 year old kid learns from a 16 year old friend that's had little experience !! What kind of education is that ???

In a perfect world .... There should be real, hands-on training with an expert ... like when we all take driving lessons ... Take a written test .... learn all of the G-spots and positions .... then get a sex learners permit and practice with an expert for at least 6 months, leading to a final road-test and a license to operate. Wouldn't that be cool ???

IMO, some people (both male and female) continue to be "bad in the sack" because they have no clue how to control their partner's orgasm. Some don't even care if their partner is satisfied. These people, IMO, should be reported on some web site, in order to be easily identified to law-abiding citizens. Maybe www.minuteman.com ??

There is a visual and audible progression to sex. Each partner needs to match their own sexual level with the other's. To do that you need to be turned on by your partner's pleasure progression, instead of your own pleasure. Moans, screams, and facial expressions correlate well to sexual pleasure. Recognizing these things, paying particular attention to the climax, goes a long way to mutual sexual satisfaction.

All this takes is practice, control, and intimacy. Of course, when both partners agree .. there's always a place in life for a quicky, but that's another thread.
DonnieDarko Reviewed by DonnieDarko on . Are you kidding me? OK, girls what is the shortest time youâ??ve ever had sex? Scenario: You start your blissful romp and all of the sudden you canâ??t believe your eyes; Heâ??s having an orgasm and your left with your jaw hanging open in disbelief. I would say shortest time for me would definitely be less than one minute :( . lolâ?¦A girl friend of mine told me a similar story that happened to her except that immediately afterward he asked her if he could bum a cigaretteâ?¦.lol. I would have punched his Rating: 5