Somehow I'm not completely convinced on PaulCT7's strategy, and if he had three tongues in his mouth this past weekend, I'm guessing he's probably not exactly discriminating about romance and relationships. (Sorry, Paul, but it's true. ) Speaking as a "chick," yeah, we dig confidence but we also dig gentlemen. I think the idea of asking is nice. It's not like you're begging or anything, and ladies like it when they feel like they have a say in how things are going. When the time's right, you can just say something flattering like "I have the strongest urge to kiss you right now. Would you mind?" Then you can go for it and take Lion's approach to moving further. Don't you think that'd be a lot better than feeling the urge and leaning in there and finding out you were reading her signals wrong and she didn't want that at all?

Good luck!