Would you rather be asked by a guy if he can kiss you, or just have the guy try to kiss you out of the blue?

ex1- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then be asked, "Can I kiss you?"

or

ex2- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then be asked, "Guy trys to kiss you."


Because this weekend a girl and I hung out at a party and I really wanted to kiss her at the moment. I just didn't know if it was appropiate or not?

This girl and I hang out like all the time though, almost every day. Lately though I feel like I really like her and she kinda likes me. Like at the party she asked me to kiss her on the cheak, after I won a game of beer pong for us. I thought that could be a just like a "YES we Won!"

I just want to know if it would be ok for us to kiss/makeout b/c I dont want to ruin what we have right now.