well before the first time I kissed my ex g/f a longgg while ago, we were at a party and she was all over me, including caressing my thigh. Then some time later I finally recognized what was going on, lol, and went for it. Best thing I ever did. She was a bit of a fa-reeekk if you know what I mean.

It just varies girl to girl, and if you know her as well as it sounds you do, then you'll know when the time is right. The way she looks at you has a lot to do with it, so always be on your toes and listen to your gut instinct!