A Question to All Girls

[JunkYard]

I've never asked; I just move in when I 'feel it', ya know?

I don't think there is one right answer here. Every girl is different; if you ask first, she may think you come off ass weak, but if you move in before it's time, you risk rejection.

I've never been afraid of rejection, so I just go for it. I'd advise you to do the same, but like I said, every girl is different, and she might actually find it flattering if you ask first, lol!

I don't know...just do what feels right, man!

[friendowl]

its true
the worst that can happen is she'll slap your mouth
when you feel that magnetic love force
just kiss her and see what happens

[Cheery Cherry]

I think you should just go for it without asking. Some of it is in the body language but her eyes will tell you a lot too. If she avoids looking into your eyes, and I mean looking into them longingly, then you know she's not ready to take it to the next level.

For me personally, I'd want a guy to just shut up and kiss me. If I didn't like the guy, I would tell him that it wasn't cool but I wouldn't slap him...especially if we were friends. I would be very flattered. And don't go for the touching her thigh thing...I think that's a bit more than a kiss. A kiss is a kiss...yes, it can be very intimate but it can also be a kiss you give to your pet. Touching the thigh thing is very personal and intimate. It's a step up from a kiss, in my opinion.

[graymatter]

First off, Cheery, that's quite an avatar you got there... mezmerizing.

I recall some discussion about "readiness" and there was a huge difference between genders... polar opposites: impulse on the one end; reason on the other. I'll let you figure out who goes where :thumbsup: Personally, I think that chemistry is the beauty of our natures...

[baisez le monde.]

mehhh..
well i find it more akward for a guy to ask
id rather him just lean in

[PureEvil760]

Theres deffinatly an art to the first kiss, I prefer ever so slightly licking the upper lip before going in for the kill. If your nerves are shot dont even try it will just lead to bad kisses. It sounds to me like she wants you bad so just go for it, dont worry about how your going to do it once you start it should turn into somthing beautiful.

[roxy]

out of the blue... i like surprises... its a bit cheesy if they ask for permission... unless its someone you really would not want to kiss, then thats different... then i would hope they would ask first!

[spiked666killer]

You will just know when the time is right. You should hook up with her first upon kissing her then you know it is probly alright if you two are going out for a while.Tell her how you feel don't be scared the most she can do is say she feels the same or she doesn't. There alot more people out there for you to meet dont let things ever reck your life over one person its not worth it.it took me 7 months to get over some one I really loved. I was a mess at the time.

[Pride]

I may not be a woman.
But my father always told me something that I thought was very true and useful, so keep this in mind.

Everyone likes to be liked.

If you're too shy, have you ever thought that maybe they like the fact that they are liked?

[thewild0ne]

i think it's probably a personal preference. but mine (and i'm willing to bet most other girls') would be just doing it, not asking. confidence is crazy sexy.
--&no, there definitely is NOT room for two vaginas. lol