Quote Originally Posted by Bong30
3rd im sorry to hear of your loss.....


its a plant..... do you want to save his life?

no email no phone calls..... you drive over and see him, and tell him you love him. Look him in the eye and tell him....(never do that Dad, it will hurt me to much, cause i love you, and then hug him) tell him you would rather live in a cardboard box in the street with him, the in a mansion with out him.

It is hard to explain guys... I am 35 with a couple kids and my whole life has changed.

like 3rd i was the kid who skated all day and night and was just a hell raiser.

Now if you, even come close to hurting my kids i freak out. The instinct to protect my kids is unbelievable

So the ability to provide for your family is important to Fathers and if you fell that you cant provide, you have failed everybody, and the worst is you failed your kids.

you need to go over and look him in the eye and forgive him.


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Yeah, i think you should listen to this guy. But then again, going over there might make it worse. But still, what bong30 is saying seems to make alot of sense. Take care of yaself its a plant Your dad raised and took care of you, now its time for you to take care of him.