I have a nasty case of the monday's...

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

3rd im sorry to hear of your loss.....


its a plant..... do you want to save his life?

no email no phone calls..... you drive over and see him, and tell him you love him. Look him in the eye and tell him....(never do that Dad, it will hurt me to much, cause i love you, and then hug him) tell him you would rather live in a cardboard box in the street with him, the in a mansion with out him.

It is hard to explain guys... I am 35 with a couple kids and my whole life has changed.

like 3rd i was the kid who skated all day and night and was just a hell raiser.

Now if you, even come close to hurting my kids i freak out. The instinct to protect my kids is unbelievable

So the ability to provide for your family is important to Fathers and if you fell that you cant provide, you have failed everybody, and the worst is you failed your kids.

you need to go over and look him in the eye and forgive him.


:twocents:

Yeah, i think you should listen to this guy. But then again, going over there might make it worse. But still, what bong30 is saying seems to make alot of sense. Take care of yaself its a plant Your dad raised and took care of you, now its time for you to take care of him.

[Bong30]

Yeah, i think you should listen to this guy. But then again, going over there might make it worse. But still, what bong30 is saying seems to make alot of sense. Take care of yaself its a plant Your dad raised and took care of you, now its time for you to take care of him.

Im not going to get into it, but if i (a father) just tried to kill my self the guilt would be over whelming.

you need to tell him that what he did was NOT ok, but you forgive him, and now I LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALY FOREVER, Then look him in the eye like a man and say "dont ever pull that shit again you scared me" hug again.

DO NOT EMAIL HIM..........you need to be a MAN and treat him like one too.

[3rdEyeVision]

maby he should try taking a break from his job, therapy,and drugs. It was like 5 days away from my 2nd birthday when my dad decided to take the whole bottle of pills at once. I think you should take this situation really seriously and tell your job about your situation and take a vacation with your pops, just get away from all the crap hes going through and have a good time. Im just a kid but I wouldnt really trust the anti-depressants too much....maby let your dad take a break from them for awhile or something I dunno it just kinda seems its heddin' down the same road my pops went

Good luck man whatever happens was meant to be.

[Its a Plant]

well that's the thing. He lost his job some time ago, and was out of work, then he inherited a bunch of money from an aunt of his, so when that ran out, he started to look for solutions. He had planned on killing himself some 6 months before, and took out a big insurance policy for us. The anti-depressents are prescribed, and seem to be working, and he was a severe undiagnosed alcoholic who hasnt had a drink since it happened. And as far as me e-mailing him : I would be more than happy to go over to his house to see him, but my stepmom and his dr. advised to give him time and we do it when he is ready. So for now I'm playing the waiting game.

[crudemood]

Its A Plant, im very sorry to hear that you and you're dad are going through this. I really am, I wish I could take it all away. I am sad for you . Don't blame yourself too badly, you DIDN'T know he was going to react that way!
I hope he gets better for your sake and HIS. Soon.. I hope for the best.

[Esmada]

You shoul talk to your dad. but it confuses me that your dad got worse after you sent him an email. But I don't know what you wrote in it. Mabye its just your stepmom being a liar? She is after all a stepmom. Mabye shes bad? I dunno.And I do not mean to uppsett you. Just thinking in writing.

[poorprincess]

You shoul talk to your dad. but it confuses me that your dad got worse after you sent him an email. But I don't know what you wrote in it. Mabye its just your stepmom being a liar? She is after all a stepmom. Mabye shes bad? I dunno.And I do not mean to uppsett you. Just thinking in writing.

it was wrong of her to make YOU feel bad.

[Its a Plant]

I guess something I said upset him b/c it reminded him how he has no money and can't support us, so I guess that set his progress back some as he was doing well coping with everything.

I did get mail from him, and he thanked me for caring so much and that hopefully I can see him soon. So things are looking up on this muggy Tuesday.

[Bong30]

Good luck, my pryers are with you, and your pops