well man, sounds like you got it pretty lucky.
2 loving parents who give you all / most of what you need.
You gotta think in their shoes man.
They are probably just worried about your safety, so you getting all worked up and stressed out only makes them believe your going out and doing things they wouldnt approve of.
At this point, you gotta just go by their rules and coast under their radar until yer off to college.
If you can't do that, I'm sure there's a nice apartment somewhere for rent.