hi poo.

can you post a couple more pics of your wilted plant?

if the plant does not have female hair (white hairs) then you should pay very very close attention to the joint/intersection area where branches are coming out of the main stalk, this is where male flowers will first show themselves.

they look like tiny little rose buds. it is a bit confusing, it is the male plant that actually produces flowers. it is these flowers that have pollen in them.

you will be able to recognize them very eaisly as long as you pay close attention.

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