Quote Originally Posted by thcbongman
I fallen for my friend's ex. Yesterday, I felt so drawn to her, and she so drawn to me. At first, I resisted, resisted all I could. We ended up holding hands, and we were about to kiss and I told her no, I couldn't do that to a friend. Mind you, this was a bitchy thing for her to do, considering her ex boyfriend was practicing with the band in the room and my friends were all watching this in what seemed like disgust. I thought it would be the end of it. I maintained my moral conduct of standards. This infatuation continues. This girl is driving me crazy. I don't know what about her that is making me feel like this. She isn't the smartest, or the most attractive. Her aura, her presence, like a fire being lit inside of me. Soft and sweet......just thinking about her, I urn for her presence. A soul conflicted......my morals is all I have, but what if morals keep me from something good....I can't do this to a friend, a true one at that. Inject your wisdom to a tortured soul.

She's playing you.

She plays this so that she makes sure others see it. She then knows the other friends will go tell the x, or the x will see it himself.

She is most likely using you and thats not right to use you to get even with the x when she in reality she might not feel anything toward you.

She could be:

Challenging him because the relationship isnt really over and using you to make him jealous because your his friend.

or

Trying to get even by being sexual with his friend, (you).

Ive had this happen before. Ive seen this happen to other guys. She goes for his friend. Now why is that? Think about it.

"I urn for her presence", "driving me crazy" "infatuated".

KEEP YOUR FEET ON THE GROUND. Right now you are all over the road with the emotions.

That will get you hurt especially if she has psuedo feelings for you.

You dont want to get hurt by her and end up without your best friend at the same time.

I say if you pursue the girl you will lose both the girl and your friend.