Quote Originally Posted by dog420
Nope she wont tell me who he is, for various reasons. She promised me that it was the 1st time she met the bloke.

That a good thing, i dunno makes ya wonder sometimes. Why the fuck was he in my bed? I really do not know.

Thats the most shocking thing about this whole nightmare.

Peace
She wont tell you because she knows you'll kill him, tell her you have the right to know (maybe she wont tell you because its someone you know, you have to find out).

If she wants to be with you still and you want to be with her, then just accept it, in time you will learn to forgive her it will only get easier.

Especially for your kids aswell.