Alright heres an update this is about being "cool", just go with me on this. Here are a few of the Do's And Dont's to be cool. K the dont's first because I know alot of you guys are doing these.

First, dont be a smart ass, now this is differant from being cocky, a smart ass will argue to prove that they are always right, and will always fight the opposite side of an arguement to seem smart, DONT DO THIS!! Be cocky, if your right make and they realize it, then reassure them by saying something "Of course" or something else cocky, and if your wrong be cocky as well, DONT ARGUE!
Second, DON'T BE THE NICE GUY! As they say "nice guys finish last" and their right who ever said it. By doin whatever they ask, and letting them walk all over you, you are tellin them your not a man, because you are being pushed around and being a wuss.
Third, DONT BE THROWING COMPLIMENTS AROUND!! They make the girl feel like shes already won, by you just comming out and saying it, you have to make her work for that kind of affection, you gotta act like you dun giva shit for her affection, this in turn will get you ''on top'' and make her have to work for you, BTW they do like it belive it or not.

Now for the do's. First, like Ive said previous, tease them, treat them like youve know them for years and are good friends with them, be comfortable with em, and in turn they will be comfortable with you. Now you have to learn how to use this to not come off as wierd or a perv. You have to get to know them a little, and they have to get to know you a little, but not to worry all this can be done in ONE NIGHT thats right ONE NIGHT, no more having to spend quality time with em before. Once you are comfortable with them, bust their balls a little, I know that sounds bad considering Im talking about girls, but its a metaphore, make fun of em a little, THEY LOVE IT.

Second, this takes effort, practice and BALLS. Try ignoring them, like you get introduced to them, say hi, get her name, then turn away and talk to your buddies, as if she means nothing to you. Like Ive said previous in this post, act as if you dont need them, make them have to chase you.

Now women want someone who is also independant, indefferant, socialaly adjusted, and funny, but not just women but everyone. They do not want depandant, awkward, non-funny, people.

Third, now this one is a stretch too, be blunt (lol blunt), and say shit like "I dont think your my type" or "If we did have a realationship, it probably would go past the physical". Be laid back, they love it. Again act as if you dont need em, they will chase you.

Now this dosnt just work for women, it can work on friends, just you know tune it so it dosnt come off as you trying to pick your buddy up. LoL. Ppl will wanna be with you if you are laid back, casual, and fun, also havin a shit load of chicks around you all the time helps with making yourself look good.