I found out that what I thought were the begining of the female parts were actually just spicules... Anyway, the tips of the leaves at the top are curling under, and are starting to feel dry. The stem isn't as bad as it was, but where the leaves are is where the stem is bending towards the ground. The leaves are just hanging there... like palm tree leaves. GARDEN KNOWM! I NEED YOUR KNOWMLEDGE!