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05-14-2006, 12:23 PM #1OPSenior Member
Cheating and lying
Do you ever think that your partner or ex partner has cheated on you ever behind your back, or that she tells you lies that you dont know weather their true or not, lies that you cant find out weather shes lying because she might get her friends to lie for her.
Do you trust your partner absolutely 100%, i dont think you do, every man will always have doubts in their mind thinking that their girlfriend, wife or whatever does stuff even if its not sex, like flirting or something.
Do you trust your part 100% or did you trust your ex 100%?cannabis campbell Reviewed by cannabis campbell on . Cheating and lying Do you ever think that your partner or ex partner has cheated on you ever behind your back, or that she tells you lies that you dont know weather their true or not, lies that you cant find out weather shes lying because she might get her friends to lie for her. Do you trust your partner absolutely 100%, i dont think you do, every man will always have doubts in their mind thinking that their girlfriend, wife or whatever does stuff even if its not sex, like flirting or something. Do you Rating: 5
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05-14-2006, 12:32 PM #2Senior Member
Cheating and lying
I thought I trusted my ex while I was with him, but after he dumped me I started wondering whether he'd been cheating on me. I think he may have, but it's been a couple of years now, and I don't care any more. I trust my current boyfriend 100% and I know that he wouldn't have sex with anyone else behind my back. Having said that, I don't count looking at other women, or flirting with them as cheating, because I do it too, with men and women, and it'd be kinda hypocritical of me to hate him doing it. Doing that kinda thing isn't serious because we live together and at the end of the day we'll be going home together, it's just a bit of fun, and frankly I'd hate being with anyone who was so paranoid they thought that looking at someone else meant I was gonna jump into bed with them.
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05-14-2006, 01:01 PM #3Senior Member
Cheating and lying
Yes, I do because at the end of my last relationship this bitch was actin like she wasnt feelin me anymore and as SOON as we break up she gets another bf, like he was waitin for the breakup...fuckin bitch. But no, not even when this happened will I cheat on my mate, I'm a really loyal guy...it's fucked up how people who arent loyal all ways gets the loyal friends but never treat them right and the loyal people always gets fucked over.
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05-17-2006, 11:14 PM #4Senior Member
Cheating and lying
yes, i know he did when we were first 9 years together. when we were in amsterdam i gave him :thumbsup: on going to a brothel but he would not go
they had very beautiful females... it is just sex...
one thing i have noticed about the free love generation males is the free love thing only applies if they are the one getting it.. lol... or is that every generation???
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05-17-2006, 11:33 PM #5Senior Member
Cheating and lying
Originally Posted by orangeman
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05-18-2006, 12:25 AM #6Senior Member
Cheating and lying
Originally Posted by cannabis campbell
She needs to be held to the same standard she holds you to when it comes to honesty.
Lying is something a person cannot hide. When someone lies they will: Look away, swallow, look down, look away, or figet. This isnt anything you can control because the subconscious mind controls this part of the body. That is how people "know" someone is lying. Dont listen to words, watch the body.
She needs to know that you are secure about the relationship. If she can sense that you are jealous, uptight, or possessive it most likely becomes a self fullfilling profecy by your own creation.
If you have to know who she is talking to, where she is going, who she is going with or playing her prison gaurd, well it shows you are too clingy and both men and women want to feel free, not obligated or forced to care for anothers feelings.
She shouldnt cheat as long as you are doing the things she needs yet fears losing to another woman. She also shouldnt cheat if you are pushing her sexual buttons.
If your not then she will respond to another guy who does and this makes no difference whether she's married or not. She can love you very much and still not want to have sex with you.
Many men are in relationships just like this, thinking it has something to do with her sex drive. Or they come to work and complain to the guys at work that "she never wants it" Or they come across as begging for sex. No guy would ever admit doing this, but doing certain things sends that message.
If a guy approaches a woman 80-90% of the time for sex he is not a challenge in the relationship. A man can never allow himself to be precieved as someone that begs, complains or makes sex an issue. Yet this is what so many guys inadvertantly do. Once your labeled sexual begger/complainer its hard to reverse that perception.
Its a supply and demand perception and when she can get it from you when ever she wants your supply is high and your sexual value is low.
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05-18-2006, 06:47 AM #7Senior Member
Cheating and lying
I dont like violence but dirty fucking cheats need a slap for putting their partners at risk and beat to a pulp if they infect.The reason why I am so angry is because my ex cheated on me and 8 years later an infection has ruined my chances of having children naturally,I am so lucky it wasnt HIV but unlucky it was chlamydia that was not diagnosed for years
Dont forgive the fuckers they deserve to rot in hell :smokin:
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05-18-2006, 02:31 PM #8Senior Member
Cheating and lying
I trust my wife implicitly and without question, absolutely, 200 percent. She's never given me a reason not to. Everyone I've been with gets the same level of trust until you give me a reason to distrust you.
...I said my piece, so now, I hush.
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05-18-2006, 02:52 PM #9Senior Member
Cheating and lying
Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
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05-18-2006, 04:08 PM #10Senior Member
Cheating and lying
i dont waste energy worrying about what someone else is gonna do
if the girl wants to fuck around then let her shes the one thats gonna suffer
in the long run anyways.i act cool all the time so there really aint no reason
for lying.if she cheats she will feel bad eventually.i could care lessLove is patient and kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres
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