Quote Originally Posted by cannabis campbell
Do you ever think that your partner or ex partner has cheated on you ever behind your back, or that she tells you lies that you dont know weather their true or not, lies that you cant find out weather shes lying because she might get her friends to lie for her.

Do you trust your partner absolutely 100%, i dont think you do, every man will always have doubts in their mind thinking that their girlfriend, wife or whatever does stuff even if its not sex, like flirting or something.

Do you trust your part 100% or did you trust your ex 100%?


She needs to be held to the same standard she holds you to when it comes to honesty.

Lying is something a person cannot hide. When someone lies they will: Look away, swallow, look down, look away, or figet. This isnt anything you can control because the subconscious mind controls this part of the body. That is how people "know" someone is lying. Dont listen to words, watch the body.

She needs to know that you are secure about the relationship. If she can sense that you are jealous, uptight, or possessive it most likely becomes a self fullfilling profecy by your own creation.

If you have to know who she is talking to, where she is going, who she is going with or playing her prison gaurd, well it shows you are too clingy and both men and women want to feel free, not obligated or forced to care for anothers feelings.

She shouldnt cheat as long as you are doing the things she needs yet fears losing to another woman. She also shouldnt cheat if you are pushing her sexual buttons.

If your not then she will respond to another guy who does and this makes no difference whether she's married or not. She can love you very much and still not want to have sex with you.

Many men are in relationships just like this, thinking it has something to do with her sex drive. Or they come to work and complain to the guys at work that "she never wants it" Or they come across as begging for sex. No guy would ever admit doing this, but doing certain things sends that message.

If a guy approaches a woman 80-90% of the time for sex he is not a challenge in the relationship. A man can never allow himself to be precieved as someone that begs, complains or makes sex an issue. Yet this is what so many guys inadvertantly do. Once your labeled sexual begger/complainer its hard to reverse that perception.

Its a supply and demand perception and when she can get it from you when ever she wants your supply is high and your sexual value is low.