i dont know man... i was kinda in the same situation you are. just having trouble talking to women. one day... i lucked out and ran in to the perfect girl .She came in to the store where i worked, looking very good. i notice that she was eye-raping me while browsing through the candy isle. The funny thing is that it was her that came on to me.After a few months of dating and fooling around, there is still pysical attraction along with the mental compatibility. And she still doesnt realize how much better she could do than me.She's pretty stuck on me for a reason i will never understand. So my advice to you is to hang in there man. women are something you find when you aren't really looking for them. But the odds are in your favor that eventually, it will happen. It is female psychology that they want you more if you act like you aren't desperate. but these are only my methods, just putting it out there for you.