but my point is I don't think they other 11 would have minded as much if the single vote explained why he felt the way he did... the main reason I bitched a bong for so long... it's much harder to be happy being wrong if you know why, rather than just cause one person says 'because'. It's like your two and your parents are telling you that you can't stay up late and you ask why and they say because...

It's mindnumbingly horrible to try to sit and talk with someone who disagrees with you and cannot express why he feels that why... I'm sure that would make me much more mad than sitting with someone you disagree with..

I mean like you and I... we disagreed but we both atleast tried to tell each other why... I don't care that you disagree just that you know why and can show me... I still may not agree in the end, but I atleast understand where you care coming from. That's what I think he should have done... and I think the others would have understood.