Whats your Safety Word?

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Okay, first thing's first:
Stop fucking fighting over this.

The safety word practice is actually a good idea. I know from when I was increasing my pain tolerance with burning and shit like that, I'd automatically start cursing and yelling stop and shit. My friend came up with the idea of saying "ENOUGH!" when I'm at mind's end. That way I could curse and yell "FUCKING STOP! STOP! STOP!!!" all I wanted but still get going. Now I'm much more pain-tolerant (used to be a bitch about it) and I agree with the safety word usage. It's much easier to get rid of the human impulse to keep going when someone's begging you for mercy when you don't use a word hard-wired in to your brain to mean NO MORE!...I suggest switching words once in awhile

The hole problem with saying "STOP" is that some kniky shit might mess with a guy or girl's head. They might know "STOP" means no more....but they'll keep going to go beyond the realms. But it makes it much more personal if an agreed upon word is chosen. Because then, someone's more likely to think "Okay, my love has had enough" Instead of "Stop? STOP? HELL NO MWUAHAHA!!!"

End rant

[Paige]

Jake, your quote in your quote is absolutely quoteable and may i add outrageously awesome hxc style. Your bro is a wise goth.


ps. I'm back

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Jake, your quote in your quote is absolutely quoteable and may i add outrageously awesome hxc style. Your bro is a wise goth.


ps. I'm back

Hallelujah!!!

By the way...OUR current one is Jimmy...I don't know why lmao

[Paige]

jimmy? are you kidding... i will never remember

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

jimmy? are you kidding... i will never remember

You better. I think the whip's coming out tonight!

[TCSparky]

Oh yes I will! When you finally start having sex you will understand exactly what I mean and at that point of enlightenment you will come into complete and utter agreement with me. Until then...................PINEAPPLE AWAY ASSHOLE!

Me thinks you forget we are mostly talking about S/M, Bondage, Role Play and other things that are outside of the normal or casual love making sex.

[krustythfreakinclown]

You "trained" yourself to be more pain tolerant by having someone hurt you?

How fucking stupid are you?

Crazy Mormons...

Okay, first thing's first:
Stop fucking fighting over this.

The safety word practice is actually a good idea. I know from when I was increasing my pain tolerance with burning and shit like that, I'd automatically start cursing and yelling stop and shit. My friend came up with the idea of saying "ENOUGH!" when I'm at mind's end. That way I could curse and yell "FUCKING STOP! STOP! STOP!!!" all I wanted but still get going. Now I'm much more pain-tolerant (used to be a bitch about it) and I agree with the safety word usage. It's much easier to get rid of the human impulse to keep going when someone's begging you for mercy when you don't use a word hard-wired in to your brain to mean NO MORE!...I suggest switching words once in awhile

The hole problem with saying "STOP" is that some kniky shit might mess with a guy or girl's head. They might know "STOP" means no more....but they'll keep going to go beyond the realms. But it makes it much more personal if an agreed upon word is chosen. Because then, someone's more likely to think "Okay, my love has had enough" Instead of "Stop? STOP? HELL NO MWUAHAHA!!!"

End rant

[poorprincess]

You "trained" yourself to be more pain tolerant by having someone hurt you?

How fucking stupid are you?

Crazy Mormons...

I'm gunna formally request that you dont post any more in here. It's obvious that you dont even understand the kind of people who would have anything usefull to say on the subject.

Heres the concept of a safety word: I like pain to be inflicted on me and to inflict pain. I am a sado masochist. I enjoy it in a sexual way. But only to a point. I never know what that point is until I've reached it. I might say stop stop, but I dont mean it because I like to be taken to new levels. It takes my brain just a second longer to be absolutly sure that I want it to stop, than it would take my lips to form the word.

In practicing the safety word method, I in affect train myself to not only tolerate but enjoy new levels of pain.

I'm glad when I say stop because I dont think I can take anymore and my boyfriend keeps going. Its a personal choice I've made,to which you've made the opposite.

Nough said.

[muncheemama]

mormons are not crazy...

[diphen]

banana! although it changes depending on the mutual decision.

and yes whomever feels that safety words are pointless probably isn't very kinky (that doesn't have to be a bad thing). i think it's good to have a word totally unrelated to the act to signal a full-stop.