well dude i dunno what to tell you, me and my wife (i'm 20) have those hellish fights all the time, but we never split up.... it's threatened.... but i don't think either of us could really ever leave the other.... first thing's first, go back w/e and take pictures, lots and lots of fucking pictures of everything she did, next, itemize (sp?) everything, and either find a reciept, or estimate what it's value was at the time it was 'stolen'...

in texas, once your married, everything is equally as much your wife's as it is your's, even if you both brought things into the relationship, that the other wasn't even around for.. once the marriage is 'final', everything becomes 'ours' instead of 'mine' and 'yours' not sure if it goes that way for everystate...

the reason for itemizing (sp?) and taking pictures, is so that if you do have to go to court, divorce or w/e, you have proof of everything she did, and blah blah blah... you might also want to call the local police, file a police report, and find out what your options are, if any.

i promise you, that if you don't take the pictures and shit.... and she takes you to court for spousal support, child support, custody or any of the like, you will get fucked... you need proof of what transpired, how much damage was done, so that the judge can decide fairly, who was in the 'right' and who was in the 'wrong' even tho you both might have been.. the person who handled it 'less correctly', are often the ones that end up paying for it in the end.

either way, keep track of shit that you might need, if court should come up, starting with getting that list and the pics done ASAP... and make sure you atleast call the police and file a report, otherwise if this issue comes up in court, and you didn't file a police report, the judge is going to look at you and say "well, you didn't file a police report, obviously it wasn't that big of a deal to you at the time..." or something like that... good luck :thumbsup: