Condoms should be worn at all times unless trying to conceive of course and would hope that your husband/wife is faithful...and also ed...there are condoms for latex sensitive people. I guess your orgasm means more than the stds these days...good luck! Did you really need that explained to you? There is some bad stuff being passed around with unprotected sex...ahh...but when your young you think you will live forever huh? Good Luck. And remember ed...the AIDS virus can take years to manifest...better safe than sorry I say...I love me..learn to love yourself enough.