There's a difference between fetish and fantasy. The idea of 2 girls kissing is a fantasy, a very healthy one. Being preoccupied with a certain part of the body (as an example) starts off as a fantasy, but as it becomes the focal point of your sexual experience, it becomes a fetish. Most everyone has fantasies and those who don't should really open their minds and imagine something that they would enjoy doing or seeing. Just because you fantasize about it doesn't it mean you would actually do it. Some ppl are more comfortable keeping their fantasies in their head. Others ppl enjoy making their fantasies realities. A fetish goes beyond a fantasy, a fetish becomes something necessary for the person to get off. It could be bondage,obsession with feet, S&M, the list goes on and on. Fetishes are fine, as long as both parties are willing participants. Nancy Friday has written many books on the topic of both male and female fantasies, read them if you'd like. You'll find you're not as "weird" as you may have thought.