Stressing Hard about Smoking - Girlfriends and Reefer

[Big Calhoun]

....so lie?

Nah, not really lying...more like 'don't ask, don't tell'. My wife knows I smoke and she knows when I'm going outside to smoke. But I don't make a production out of it and she just as soon as forgets when I come walking back in.

It really does come down to communication. First, everyone has to be on the same playing field...ie. you smoke and your S.O. knows you smoke. Second comes protocol, decide how it will be handled.

Big Calhoun Reviewed by Big Calhoun on 05-08-2006. Stressing Hard about Smoking - Girlfriends and Reefer Wow. So I've been having ongoing "discussions" with my girl on smoking. Honestly, it makes me feel like a criminal and like some kind of loser/slacker whenever I pick up the pipe because she tells me it's all I talk about. She called me last night and told me I had a "problem". I also realized that since she's been getting on my case about it, it makes me more paranoid when I smoke and I lot less enjoyable. Rating: 5