Stressing Hard about Smoking - Girlfriends and Reefer

[The Grim Reefer]

Wow.

So I've been having ongoing "discussions" with my girl on smoking.

Honestly, it makes me feel like a criminal and like some kind of loser/slacker whenever I pick up the pipe because she tells me it's all I talk about.

She called me last night and told me I had a "problem".

I also realized that since she's been getting on my case about it, it makes me more paranoid when I smoke and I lot less enjoyable.

What do you guys do when it comes to situations like these? Seriously, I'm starting to wonder if I have a problem simply because she implies it so much and I question it each time deep in the back of my mind.

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The Grim Reefer Reviewed by The Grim Reefer on 05-07-2006. Stressing Hard about Smoking - Girlfriends and Reefer Wow. So I've been having ongoing "discussions" with my girl on smoking. Honestly, it makes me feel like a criminal and like some kind of loser/slacker whenever I pick up the pipe because she tells me it's all I talk about. She called me last night and told me I had a "problem". I also realized that since she's been getting on my case about it, it makes me more paranoid when I smoke and I lot less enjoyable. Rating: 5

[Krogith]

whats she saying? whats her defence? I just turned my GF into a stoner fixed that RQ:smokin: shes gotta talk about sonething to? shes gotta be into something everyone got a hobby? can you call her out on doing the same thing on something she likes?:smokin: i mean imo i did TILE setting as my job for like 8 years and thats all i would talk about is work so whats she busting your balls about? wouldn't she talk about something she was learning and/or getting into?

[The Grim Reefer]

She tells me things like "It's not good for you, it's not good for your lungs, it's not good to be doing everyday.." ect.

I've been telling her everything I know from how it produces brain cells, to how it kills anxiety, to medicinal uses and all of the benefits of legalization.

She smokes once in awhile, she just doesn't believe it's something to use everyday or even every other day. How often do you guys smoke? :thumbsup:

[Krogith]

I have smoked non stop for like 9 years man:smokin: i got my medical card tho .... if im out it's like a day:smokin: To not mess with tolerance i just keep changing herbs like right now i got 5 differnt strains to mix and smoke (hawaiian indica, Jack Herer, Trainwreck , KnockOut, Ghooey/afgan cross)
:smokin: get a vaporizer you'll love your self for it $Volcano$

[The Grim Reefer]

Did you notice any difference in your lungs after using the Volcano? Hrmm?
Thanks for the quick replies, btw.

This is my 2nd year smoking, though I mainly use it recreationally - it mostly helps me deal with stress. My mind goes a mile a minute, bro

So you're saying switching strains/herbage eases tolerance?
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[Krogith]

Vapeing hella helps your lungs.
Now the mixing strains is What i have found works for me ....now what some bogard is going claim it's all in my head what ever....
But from my Exp smokeing you have 1st your 2 differnt strains Sativa and Indica (ones head high and others more body high) these are the classes your Strains are in..... and 2ed you got tons of truely differnt weed strains from all around the world ....Now sometimes my head high is crazy overwelming i pass out sleeping some times it will be just the WOW WOW WOW WOW feeling and same with the body high they all differ IMO when your not on the same strain and Swiching it around like me ( i got 3+ kinds allways to smoke with) Seems to me i can Still get just as high as the 1st day I smoked herb ..... :smokin:sounds like you got same prob i have i can;t stop thinking when not smokeing i need weed to just go :smokin: OK FUCK IT:smokin:

[Pride]

My gf is very against weed and would break up with me if she caught me. Just mentioning it at all makes her go ape shit.
Yet she's an alcoholic, lol!

She told me some story how her friend went crazy cause of weed and killed himself when there was no weed left or some shit. Weird.

[fikusroot]

to be perfectly honest maybe you do have a problem and maybe you should cut back. It takes maturity and disipline to smoke in moderation and not let a stupid plant run your life, I think if you cut back, you'd show your girlfriend some real strengh since since she obviously sees smoking as a sign of weakness. And I dont smoke very often, maybe once or twice a week. If I'm on vacation or during the summer I smoke a lot more though.

[WaKeNvAp]

My gf is very against weed and would break up with me if she caught me. Just mentioning it at all makes her go ape shit.
Yet she's an alcoholic, lol!

She told me some story how her friend went crazy cause of weed and killed himself when there was no weed left or some shit. Weird.

the first part sux. my ex was like that. i told her i smoked pot @ last to try to scare her away from me. didnt work. i really thought it would have becuz she was super anti-pot. but she just adapted a "dont ask, dont tell" attitude towards it. but she would always ask with extreme sarcasim, "are you high?" and she would ask, "whats that smell?" everytime we got in my jeep.(hid a stash of OG kush in the glove box, also told her the glove box was broken) and whenever herb was mentioned, "i hate all drugs and the people who do them" even though she became addicted to cigs and drank (soicially) hard since i first met her. after that, i knew when she knew i was high and when she didnt know, and to be honest with you, she didnt really care, she jus acted like it bothered her.
as to the second part, ur kinda screwed there well arent ya? i mean, u could ask her to bring u documented evidence of this occuring, but i know it can be hard to ask your girl that. u just have to ask her, tell her you were learning more and more about it, ask(whats?) her opinion on cigs, tobacco is natural, but it kills nearly half a million people a year. google around with her and try to find something "bad" about cannabis except getting stoned. then look at alcohol's stats. alcohol occurs in nature, but i dont see many people grabbing rotting bananas off the trees to drink the natural accuring alcohol. it grows in the ground(depending) and is 100% natural, no distillment neccessary.
so the answer to your q grim reefer, it's not you that has the problem, it's her. it sux cuz u prob luv her, and i know you love herb too. do what you do, but dont hide it from her. i wish i never hid it form my ex. if she's not cool with it, tell her that you are, and if she's right for you, she'll come around or except you for you. if not, go fishing with ur current catch molded on your wall as a friend.

[Pride]

you said it like it is..

I doubt the story of her friend is any true. It's way too weird.
Her brother smokes lots of weed and invited me to party with him lol!
Oh, and her father died from cigs so that developed quite a hate for smoking in general lol!