Girlfriend Trouble wtf :-(

[welshkillabee]

My girl just decided to announce (to my mother) she hates me smoking and she cant take it anymore
she is far too ignorant to actually learn anything about it (her words "drugs are drugs theyre all bad and kill you etc etc"), so looks like she will be my ex now. I love her but I can't change my beliefs for anyone.

welshkillabee Reviewed by welshkillabee on 05-05-2006. Girlfriend Trouble wtf :-( My girl just decided to announce (to my mother) she hates me smoking and she cant take it anymore :mad: she is far too ignorant to actually learn anything about it (her words "drugs are drugs theyre all bad and kill you etc etc"), so looks like she will be my ex now. I love her but I can't change my beliefs for anyone. Rating: 5

[SensiRide]

Hey

1) How long have you been seeing your girlfriend for?
2) What age are you both?

[welshkillabee]

Hey Sensi Im 21 shes 25.
We been together for 6 months I been a smoker way before that

[SensiRide]

OK.
I think in that situation I'd make a list (on paper/in your head, whatever) of all the good things about your relationship and all the bad things about your relationship.

Can you picture being with her for the rest of your life?
Does she nag you every time you smoke?
Does she generally annoy you more than bring you pleasure?

If you feel like this early on, I'd probably say find someone else who accepts you for who you are and what you do or at least someone neutral but to have someone on your case all the time about some bloody herbs will begin to wear you down and the longer you go out, I'm guessing the worse it will get. I dont know her so I cant really say.........talk to her - why is she so against it? Has she ever tried it?

The last thing you want to do is start being secretive, hiding your weed and your red eyes and all the rest of it

[welshkillabee]

OK.
I'd probably say find someone else who accepts you for who you are and what you do or at least someone neutral but to have someone on your case all the time about some bloody herbs will begin to wear you down and the longer you go out, I'm guessing the worse it will get. I dont know her so I cant really say.........talk to her - why is she so against it? Has she ever tried it?

She claims to have tried it, but that was most probs some soapbar :rasta:

I think we will have a talk tonight and call it a day I dont need this shit she makes me feel like Im evil for smoking weed and it some major thing I swear she puts all drugs in the same boat all drugs are bad.

[flamingskullballs]

that sucks man, happens to the best of us

[LIP]

She should be in love with YOU, and if YOU smoke weed, then she should accept it. If shes gunner say shit like "Drugs are drugs, and drugs kill" then she NEEDs to do some reasearch, cos shes 100% wrong!

[welshkillabee]

She should be in love with YOU, and if YOU smoke weed, then she should accept it. If shes gunner say shit like "Drugs are drugs, and drugs kill" then she NEEDs to do some reasearch, cos shes 100% wrong!

Yeah I know Lip
One time I had the Cannabible 2 in my hands and I tried to get her to read the article "Does Cannabis make you a better person?" and she said "No, Im not reading it I dont want to know" she can be so ignorant sometimes

[welshkillabee]

daima needs to come bless this thread :rasta:
Im stressed right now and mad

[thcbongman]

Deja Vu

My ex told my mom I was using Ecstacy every weekend. It was the weirdest point in my life, because all the sudden everyone turned on me and told me to stop and it was changing me.

Don't be with a girl like that, because they are trouble. You gotta have open honesty and not have someone undermining your trust.