Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
She may be letting folks do that, but she's only doing that, SmokinD, because something's very wrong with her. Girls aren't built to do that, emotionally or physically. Train-runners are likely either drunk or have been damaged by previous horrible things that cause them not to have any self-esteem or ability to discriminate between healthy and unhealthy intimacy. Some guys can justify it in their minds, obviously, and I'm sure there are girls in the world who behave as if they're having great fun at that activity. Talk to someone at your nearest university's rape crisis center and find out what that sort of sexual activity means on an emotional level to the women who participate in it. It's not good.

^^ I couldn't agree more with Birdgirl.

Over 10 years ago a good friend of mine was raped as 14 year old virgin, she didn't tell many people and as she had never experienced sex with intamacy, she had no issues with 'running trains' to impress a boy she fancied. Obviously, this lad had no respect for her (and dare I say it, women in general..) and was oblivious to the fact that he and his mates had caused this girl, who had already gone through the trauma of being raped at knife point, to suffer from such depression and post traumatic stress disorder that she has since made several suicide attempts.

The point of the story, smokin dope, is that any girl who lets this happen to her has no self esteem and is obviously not mentally stable. You and you're mates have no right to subject her to further cognitive stress and quite frankly the fact that you don't see how wrong the whole thing is makes me worry almost as much about your mental health.

No REAL MAN could even comprehend treating a girl in such a degrading manner.