Quote Originally Posted by minnesota man
Big Calhoun--Consider adoption.
We may. This will be our 3rd and final time trying IVF. The 1st time, we lost the baby at 6 months...it was a devestating experience. The 2nd time, it was twins and they didn't develop properly and had to be aborted. So we think we have all of our ducks in a row now and we're hoping the third time is the charm. I hope so, I really miss my son (from the 1st try); my wife went through a full delivery but his lungs were underdeveloped and they couldn't save him.

But yeah, if it doesn't work this time, then we will most likely go the adoption route.