Should i Fight This guy? (Long read)

[Fabolous]

well i am hoping to run into later on today, not sure if i can today but i am considering the sudden nice weather coming in that he maybe at another friends house later on today... and if he is well we will see what i do from there.

And I am not gonna guarantee that i am not going to Throw the frist punch.

[daima]

well i am hoping to run into later on today, not sure if i can today but i am considering the sudden nice weather coming in that he maybe at another friends house later on today... and if he is well we will see what i do from there.

And I am not gonna guarantee that i am not going to Throw the frist punch.

He might be at another friends house? learning the hard way, eh?
Just remember this...
Life is hard but life is hardest when you're dumb.

dai*ma:stoned:

[NinjaMan]

Yo, the mere fact that ur asking 4 advice as 2 whether u shud fight someone tells me you not ready...

"To Know And To Act Are One In The Same"

Speaking from vast experience, violence resolves nothing...it only perpetuates a cycle of more violence...in other words, make sure your ready 4 tha payback if you do this...

also, remember, combat is full of uncertainty, is it really worth the consequences? There's plenty of ways to inflict more damage to someone than squarin' off...

-- Way Of The Ninja

[thcbongman]

Violence solves nothing. I feel you, I would be pissed if my mp3 player got stolen. I would want to kick some ass.

But in the end, is it really worth it? Not at all. What pride do you have when everyone thinks your some violent dude? Having people fear you isn't a sign of respect, people just don't want to be around you.

I agree with Ninjaman in terms of this: if you are asking, you aren't ready. I don't even know for sure if you could kick the dudes ass. What if he beats you down?

Questions you should ask yourself.

[Fabolous]

Yo, the mere fact that ur asking 4 advice as 2 whether u shud fight someone tells me you not ready...

"To Know And To Act Are One In The Same"

Speaking from vast experience, violence resolves nothing...it only perpetuates a cycle of more violence...in other words, make sure your ready 4 tha payback if you do this...

also, remember, combat is full of uncertainty, is it really worth the consequences? There's plenty of ways to inflict more damage to someone than squarin' off...

-- Way Of The Ninja

in what way was i asking Advice? i was looking for Option's on the whole case.

oh BTW sadly i never meet up with him o well just gotta wait tell friday, if it's true another friend told me he is gonna be going to his house there after school..

[Fabolous]

Violence solves nothing. I feel you, I would be pissed if my mp3 player got stolen. I would want to kick some ass.

But in the end, is it really worth it? Not at all. What pride do you have when everyone thinks your some violent dude? Having people fear you isn't a sign of respect, people just don't want to be around you.

I agree with Ninjaman in terms of this: if you are asking, you aren't ready. I don't even know for sure if you could kick the dudes ass. What if he beats you down?

Questions you should ask yourself.

Man you don't live in my area. and most of all you people that say "Violante's don't Solve things" yea it does here.. here it shows respect and makes people think twice before taking any of my shit again.

And just becase someone gets into a fight everyone once in a while doesn't make him a Violent person.

And for those who say Violence doesn't solve anything, that really makes me think i can steal your car and you wont do shit about it expect cry.

[Chaos]

just walk up to him like a man and be like did u take my shit? and if he says no then knock the fuck outta him

[STLsMoker4LiFe]

Ok, here is the way I see it. You think nate took your MP3 player, but you don't know 100% if he is the person who really took it.My advice is, if you dont have proof then you might want to hold off on kicking this kid's ass. Now, I know you don't want to look like a punk or anything, and you don't want to just let whoever took your shit get off hook so easily. But, if you kick this kid's ass, and then find out in the future that it was somebody else who took it, you are going to look real shady for stomping a mud hole in some guy's face who did not even take it in the first place. So just confront him him about it first,look him in the eye, and be firm about asking. Don't be too agressive, and the reason why I say this is because if you approach with an attitude that is too agressive, you might start a fight before you can even figure out the truth. And if he is real afraid of you because he thinks you will whip his ass, then he may lie in order to avoid an ass beating, so either way, an agressive approach will only make matters worse. And besides, beating him up might make you feel better, but it still wont replace the MP3 player. So just ask him in a firm manner as to if he knows anything about your missing MP3 player. If you look in his eyes you will know if he is telling the truth. The first thing someone does when they are lying is say "what" as if they did not hear you. Or some other type of question or phrase to buy time to think of a good answer. Example......."hey homie, I had an MP3 player on the fridge the other night, and now its gone, do you know what happened to it??....."An MP3 player??"...." yeah an MP3 player"....."umm nope I have not seen it"........If the convo goes like that, then he is lying, cause he did ask a question and he was not all to helpful either and most people are or atleast try to be somewhat helpful......here is another example....."Hey homie, I had an MP3 player on the fridge the other night and now its gone, you know what happened to it??"........"an MP3 player?" ..."yeah an MP3 player"......."Nope man I have not seen it"....."are you sure you left it on the fridge?"....."yeah ,I'm sure"....."what color was it?"......"it was blue"....."hmmm... "not that I know of, why don't you ask steven's mom if she seen it"...."aight man thanks".......Now, you see how the person asked more detail, took an interest and even made suggestion? That is a little bit more sincere. My point is, you can usually tell when someone is lying, but even then you still don't know the truth 100%. So to give my final answer.....don't kick his ass, because as I said before, it wont bring back the MP3 player and you run the risk of fighting the wrong guy if you dont know for sure. Take it as a lost, and move on. There are more things in life worth fighting for, than over some bullshit like 'you think this certain person took a less than $100 MP3 player'. If you went around fighting everyone because you think they stabbed you in the back, you will be fighting alot of people in life, and eventually you will run the risk of either getting a real good ass beating or worse...getting shot...remember, some people carry guns, and those people don't fight they shoot... I am not trying to talk shit to you, I am trying to give you the best advice possible......take better care and keep better watch over your shit in the future my friend. Oh and another thing, don't leave your shit sitting around a house where people you don't know all that well walk around. I don't care if steven has an uncle living with him, if you don't know the uncle all that well, then you best to keep a close eye on anything that belongs to you

[God v2.0]

look the final and bottom lne here is if you are a big guy then kick his ass, even if he didn't do it you will still set the example and prevent further thefts from you.

[NinjaMan]

I take it all back man....jus handle yaself...im out