Im 18... and could be a father...

[Swizzy89304]

Ive done some stupid shit in my time, but nothing comes close to what happened at the weekend. Ive tried speed once, and although I thought that was pretty dumb, it doesnt come anywhere near this.

Unprotected sex.

So I invite my girl to sleep round at the weekend, and she says yeah. We buy a bottle of wine, some vodka and rent a movie, and before you know it were both pretty drunk. Clothes start gradually coming off, and I gain the confidence to 'venture south'. I think I spent a good 30-45 mins going down on her, and when shes finished (yes thats right - when SHES finished) she climbs on top of me and starts kissing me. Thats when I think 'Ill make sure we dont have sex, because I dont have any protection'. But in a little while shes rubbing herself against my nether regions, and Im the horniest that Ive ever been. So I 'grab myself' and start to rub it against her... then I slide in.
Wow. Im a virgin (was), and although it hurts a little at first, after a few strokes its a pretty good feeling - and a nice fit aswell

Luckily I didnt come inside her - I asked her to 'finish me off' as I was scared of coming inside her without protection, but lately shes been saying that shes feeling sick and it "feels weird down there". I dont think that I broke her in, as shes had sex before (although she said it was with someone who was huge, so she made him stop because it was hurting so much), but I know that it can break just by riding a bike/horse etc.
Im really worried that I might have got her pregnant, but to be honest Im more worried what her parents and my parents will have to say about it! I really dont want a kid at 18/19, but if I do, then I know that Ill be a good dad and she'll be a good mum.
Abortion is a BIG no-no!
I think we might go to the hospital later in the week to have her checked out, do you think it would be a good idea if I was tested for STD's as Ive never been in a sexual relationship before (been in physical ones though).

Im so confused.

Edit: This happened Saturday night/Sunday morning, and she came off her period on Thursday if that helps anyone.

Swizzy89304 Reviewed by Swizzy89304 on 05-01-2006. Im 18... and could be a father... Ive done some stupid shit in my time, but nothing comes close to what happened at the weekend. Ive tried speed once, and although I thought that was pretty dumb, it doesnt come anywhere near this. Unprotected sex. So I invite my girl to sleep round at the weekend, and she says yeah. We buy a bottle of wine, some vodka and rent a movie, and before you know it were both pretty drunk. Clothes start gradually coming off, and I gain the confidence to 'venture south'. I think I spent a good Rating: 5

[hutch b tokin]

Ive done it alooot more than I should have...Just be careful next time...If she IS pregnant, then we will just assume God hates you and go from there.
:thumbsup:

[LIP]

Well that could be a problem, but im sure if she is you'll both make great parents. Going to the hospital is the best way to find out.

You wont have any STD's from other relationships, so unless shes got any. your ok!

Goodluck, i hope you hear the news you both want to

[friendowl]

damn boy
you got youself a taste of poon
if you didnt nut in her then she probobly aint
pregnant.that was a smart move to have her finish you off
if she aint pregnant than your lucky.having a baby is like
sentencing yourself to a wonderful prison.
good luck and buy some rubbers

[Swizzy89304]

Cheers for the help Hutch, LIP and Friendowl. It was so damn tempting to come inside her, but there were 2 things telling me not to:

1. She said shes had the morning after pill before, and it fucked her body up.
2. I dont wanna sleep in the wet patch.

[LIP]

lol, well its a good job you didnt blow your load in her.

[friendowl]

me im an idiot
i woulda nutted in her and ran off
she thinks my name is oliver

[muncheemama]

this weekend? She cant feel pregers yet, shes just trying to get attention, maybe...dont freak yourself out dude. If shes late then freak out, and if she is, fuck the parents, youre an ADULT and you have to raise it they dont. She isn't. But I hope you learned your lesson. And as for the pull out method, I don't think I would be here or even many of us stoners (or my oldest son, woops) if it worked. get her on some birth control, because condoms suck, people don't use them, especially since you tried it once without, now youre addicted.

[Mr.420]

Ok, her is a little bit of a physiology lesson:

Most women have a 28 day cycle. The start of that cycle begins with the mestrual perion which lasts 1-5 days. Day 6-12 the endometrium begins to repair itself. Day 13-14 is the ovulatory period. Then, days 15-28, the uterus prepares itself for fertilization, if this does not occur, on the 28th day the process starts over.

This means that your women has only a 48 hour period in a whole month in which she can get pregant. You said her period ended on Thursday and this occurance happened on Saturday; I would say she is NOT pregnant. Don't sweat it.

I would let my big head start doing the thinking!

[muncheemama]

Ok, her is a little bit of a physiology lesson:

Most women have a 28 day cycle. The start of that cycle begins with the mestrual perion which lasts 1-5 days. Day 6-12 the endometrium begins to repair itself. Day 13-14 is the ovulatory period. Then, days 15-28, the uterus prepares itself for fertilization, if this does not occur, on the 28th day the process starts over.

This means that your women has only a 48 hour period in a whole month in which she can get pregant. You said her period ended on Thursday and this occurance happened on Saturday; I would say she is NOT pregnant. Don't sweat it.

I would let my big head start doing the thinking!

coach peterson?? Holy Shit, I knew you got high...you were the best health teacher we had...:thumbsup: