Good call Psycho, this exactly the kinda stuff we discourage.. "Speak For Yourself" is in no way negative. It may have not be terribly sympathetic, no...but it shouldn't instigate and certainly doesn't excuse insanely derogitory language like I've seen tonight. So everyone relax. What happened (If true) is a sad thing...but it doesn't mean everyone is required show their condolences.

My mother once told me...If ya have nothing nice to say...then you probably shouldn't be saying it.