DonnieDarko could never be an intrusion.

If were talking pictures or movies than they donā??t do much for me unless Iā??m sharing them with someone special. Once, for my then boyfriend I gave him a subscription to playboy for his birthday. Then every month when it came we would look at it together. We also made a few of our own movies (which I got to keep ) then watch them together laterā?¦.ha ha good times, good times. We also liked to have sex in public places but the hottest thing about the relationship was that we shared a passion for each other and we felt comfortable doing those things together an we trusted each otherā?¦it was something we could share. And to me it seemed like we feed off of each others craziness.

I think female fantasies have a little more dialog and male fantasies have a little more lesbian action; besides that I think male and female fantasies are pretty much about the same.

I do not like submissive men. I donā??t like cavemen eitherā?¦.I know itā??s a fine line. I just am not attracted to a man who could be genuinely submissive to me. Let me explain. If I am being aggressive or behaving in a dominate manner I want it to be because he allows or encourages me to be that way. So yes, technically he is being subservient but it is by his own choice (when his subservience begins and ends) so to me his choice further demonstrates his true dominance over me. Believe me there are plenty of men out there who are content to be subservient to their womanā?¦..itā??s not for me. I have a very dominate personality as it is so sometimes I need someone to keep me in check so to speak.

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