how do I look?

[king kong bong]

I really hate making threads like this... and I haven't been on this site for a while so apologies in advance. But, I need some honest opinions. A lot of people tell me I'm gorgeous, and a lot of people tell me I'm ugly as sin... What do you guys think?

By the way, I don't have a self-esteem problem, so brutally honest opinions are appreciated.

Thanks! :smokin:

i'd bang ya.

[SpiritLevel]

Here we go! I will split this up...

...I need some honest opinions. A lot of people tell me I'm gorgeous, and a lot of people tell me I'm ugly as sin... What do you guys think?...

That is fair enough. Having people speak the truth at all times would end the need to wonder what people are thinking, and whether or not what they are saying concurs with that they are thinking, or if they are saying it because thay have ulterior motives. It removes the what-ifs!

[SpiritLevel]

...By the way, I don't have a self-esteem problem, so brutally honest opinions are appreciated.

We will come back to that one!

... ...well thanks guys... you made me feel better for my night out...

Humm. If you didn't have a 'self-esteem problem' (a problem with confidence in oneâ??s own worth or abilities), as you put it, then whatever response you provoked from the world should not have made you feel better or worse. I fink I may be looking at you too hard, but I'm showing you how I see you, beyond your photograph and into your use of words and what you are putting out?

[SpiritLevel]

..."...Thank you guys so much for your feedback...

That's the thing though, I'm not worried at all about my personality, like I really love who I am and I have a lot of friends, but that also gives people a bias when they're evaluating my looks, because I think that personality TOTALLY defines how you look. I just wanted to see what people would say based on physical appearance alone...

I'd be worried about my persona if I felt the need to ask the world if they found me attractive for any reason. Saying "...I really love who I am and I have a lot of friends..." in the same sentence tells me that if the reverse was to occur then you might actually hate yourself for having few or no friends. Does that mean that the amount of friends you have is a contribution to how much you love yourself? Essentially then, the more other people like you the more you might feel wanted/desired and the feeling of being wanted helps you to appreciate who you are? I am just looking at what I see.

Personality, I think, does not define how someone looks. Personality defines an individual's level of existence; whether they are popular or interesting to others. Physical attraction, or how a person looks, would not be that which defines the subjects personality. I am not saying that it isn't a contributory factor, but I am neither going all out to say that 'personality TOTALLY defines how you look. If that was so then my look would TOTALLY define my personality, That'll be a stoned look, pie eyed, and unable to string a sentence together anytime of day. My personality does not fit my basic physical description.

At this point I'd partially agree with

... Kiki I give your atitude and way of thinking a solid zero. ...

[SpiritLevel]

...someone told me this last night... if it's true i'm happy...

Showing happiness for having your looks compared to a celeb? I suppose, since you base much on appearance and physical looks, this might win you some more friends and then you might love yourself a little more. Or if it turns out to be false you may well become unhappy according to the reverse polarity of your statement.

"...I definitely agree... it's so true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that one person can think you're amazingly beautiful and someone else can think you're awful...

If you knew that before starting this thread I'd say it was a case of

COME LOOK AT ME, I DON'T CARE IF YOU FIND ME ATTRACTIVE OR NOT, I JUST WANT TO BE LOOKED AT AND TALKED ABOUT.

I'm soo glad someone found me something to do!:rasta:

Unfortunately I now have to partially agree with activedenial's attachment on Page1. That don't mean to say I wouldn't fk ya!

[king kong bong]

holy shit when did dr phil join the site.

[SpiritLevel]

Sorry everyone for using up lots of space here, but I have a bucket mouth

[Jacop]

omg your hideous -- absolutely discusting -- you make me want to vomit.. augh... diying ahh... bad.. picture... SYDROME!!!!!!!! HEEELLLP! no jp i work at a movie theature and you would be a relife on my eyes after all those average peeps show up

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

Why would someone actually tell you you're "ugly as sin"? I can't imagine someone being that cruel, esp. since you're far from being even remotely "ugly".

[muncheemama]

O come on ...lol....how may SensiRide photo threads have we been subjected to.

Oh, snap!