yea but like i was saying....i like light bondagey type stuff...nothing bad just some clawing, name calling, choking...stuff like that...(i used to be worse lol) and some people dont go for that sorta stuff....but those same people might be turned on by poo go figure...but as long as its not involving forced shit (no pun intended) or children...then in my opinion its fair game for discussion...although the main and final say is up to the mods :thumbsup: