No way man, you just THINK people will walk all over you. I know the feeling of course, it's hard being nice. But when you really do it all the time people are pretty much shocked at your trustworthiness and respond with their own kindness. Maybe it depends who you hang out with though.

To each his own, but I have found being sincere and kind all the time to be a personality that works out for me. (So it's not like it's impossible). People find it disarming, and I think they're pretty grateful for it. They're like "oh wait... you mean we can actually be honest and up front for once?"

Even on forums like this, where lotsa people are sarcastic and mean, I try to be that way, and it works out just fine. People always appreciate it and if they don't that's their problem--it just means they're the kind of person who would judge you no matter what you're like, and they probably have their own issues that they're just hiding by being mean or something.

What people don't realize about choosing to be kind is that, once you really give it a try, I mean REALLY care about people, you feel soooo much better about your life. Even though it SEEMS like you're going to lose something or whatever, you're just fooling yourself. Making others truly happy = Making yourself truly happy
Trichocereus Panza Reviewed by Trichocereus Panza on . Weird Outlook On Death What do you think happends when you die, Ive had two things goin on about this when I was high a few days ago. 1st one. When you die that just it, your done, you lie in rest, you do nothing, no afterlife, no heaven, nothing, just finished. 2nd one. When you die all that there is to do is think about how you lived you life and thats why you be nice to people so that when you look back on it you can feel good. Now these seem pretty simple, but Im high right now so I can really elaborate Rating: 5