Quote Originally Posted by skipbrilliantine
i've had more gay men judge me for not keeping up with the 'lifestyle' than i have by straight people for being gay. people are people, my friends.
I can relate to this. I have never followed the "gay" lifestyle as portayed in the media. Unfortunately, the obvious or different is more easily seen and captured by the media and others and becomes the stereotype. Believe it or not, not all gay men and women run around tooting horns, blowing whistles and dancing in pink tutu's. There are a few that enjoy being a man and doing (again a stereotype) manly things that just want the touch, feel, strength and companionship of another man. It doesn't always come to sex, but when it does, who would be better at knowing what "makes your body" feel good than someone with the same equipment that has already found out what makes their body feel good.

P.S. A great sexual experience with another of the same sex does not always include anal insertion. Sex is not just physical, it is emotional and psycological too.